Sunday, January 3, 2010

A Second Chance For Your Relationship

If you are here and you have just gone through a break up then you need a second chance for your relationship. It dose not matter how bad you think your situation is. Even if you think that you have done everything possible there is a second chance waiting for you. "Over" dose not mean the end only that you will have to work on your self for a little wile until you get what you want! "Forever can still be forever"

Do you call your love interest too often? Do you text or email them so much that they become upset with you? Do you seek them out only to be met with more disappointment and frustration? At every attempt to "just tell them how you feel" only to find it just doesn't seem to come out right? Do all your efforts seem to make everything so much worse? You need a second chance for your relationship but can't seem to get it. There is vary important reasons why this is happening to you.

You are hurt and most likely anxious about your loss and this is causing you to act in a way that makes all that you do seem to explode before your vary eyes. Though your intention is of the best quality this will be your result almost every time. You are working so hard to keep your mate that instead you are pushing them away by smothering them. A second chance for your relationship is possible because you do not know that this is vary normal in the way human behavior works.

This is a strategy to get you what you want and win a second chance for your relationship. Stop all your communication and contact with your love interest with no warning or good bye. This will be vary hard and may hurt you to do this. Just remember the end result will get you what you want. You must focus on your self during this time, start to improve your self and go out and meet new people. Smile and then smile some more because you will start to remember all the wonderful things that you love about your self.

Your love interest will start to go through a proses where you will become something of a mystery to them because you ended your communication so abruptly. This person will start think of you and remember all the reasons why they fell in love with you in the first place. They will even start to miss you. Each time they see you you appear to be happy and doing vary well they will start to want you to give them a second chance for your relationship. this will provoke them to action.

This is the way human nature works, we want what we can't have. Now you must let them make the first move and play hard to get. Be sure not to over do it because you don't want to discourage them. By playing hard to get you will strengthen their desire for you to give them a second chance. All you needed to do was work on your self and have fun with it wile they do all the work to win your heart back.

I hope with all my heart that this helps your heart. For more in depth help a book that I love soo much!! is The Magic Of Making Up by T.W. Jackson

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